Heartbreak is the national anthem, we sing it proudly

Since we are young, we are taught that heartbreaks are the worst thing that can happen to us. We see it in soap operas, movies, etc. Usually, it is the woman who has to carry with all the emotional stuff that a heartbreak brings. I am not saying that men don't suffer, of course they do, but to be honest, I've seen way more women suffering from a heartbreak than men. Heartbreaks are horrible, I'm not saying anything new. Isn't it horrible when you trust someone with all your heart and they leave as if nothing had happened? Or isn't it so shitty when you see the one you once loved so happy with someone they chose over you? (Even uglier, hehe). 

It's awful to see how many beautiful and amazing women cry and suffer over immature guys who don't even know what they want in life, and there was a time when I was one of those girls. If you are going through a heartbreak, I know how terrible it is, and how is it to feel unappreciated, disrespected and disappointed, let alone sad and angry because you know you never deserved that kind of treatment. It is even worse when you're crying and your soul feels devastated while the jerk is playing around with some ...girls. Or he's just playing videogames while you are in your bed trying to process everything or just trying to get distracted from all the crap they gave you. To all these women, I only have to say something: I understand you. It may not be something big or something important, but when we're going through those moments, we just want to be heard and understood. 

I don't know if many people will read this, but in case you do, I have a nice heartbreak playlist for you, which I divided in two parts: the red moments and the firework moments. The red moments are the ones where you experience grief, devastation and pure sadness. The latter, are the ones where you feel you're finally clean and understand that actually, God made you a favor by removing that toxic piece of shit of your life. 

For the red moments:

All Too Well - Taylor Swift

I'm Not The Only One - Sam Smith

If I Were a Boy - Beyoncé

Take a Bow - Rihanna

Jar of Hearts - Christina Perri

For the firework moments:

We Are Never Ever Getting Back Together - Taylor Swift

Don't Start Now - Dua Lipa

Tusa - Karol G, Nicki Minaj

Part of Me - Katy Perry

New Romantics - Taylor Swift

If you've read until this point, I thank you for that and I hope you feel better or at least you've had some fun reading my thoughts. I just know that everything happens for a reason, and that actually, freedom is disguised in a heartbreak, that's the meaning I've found in heartbreak after some time... as my beloved Taylor Swift says: "heartbreak is the national anthem, we sing it proudly".

Pd: The best people in life are free.

L